self confidence

 self confidence is one of the most important thing that any lolita can have. the way the world works nowdays if you wear something a tad bit different they stare and laugh at you. If you want to have fun wearing lolita than you need to be confident, if you walk around in your favorite dress and your all self consious and nervous you won't have any fun. Lets say your at school in lolita and you think someone's staring at you, it's not a good idea to try to pretend that they're not because chances are that they really are staring at you. If you do see someone staring at you, don't act like you care, just smilie and wave at them and you'll be surprised at the reaction you get. If someone asks you why your wearing that just politely say "because I like it" If you want to be really confident try to look at the glass half full instead of half empty, you'll be a lot happy that way.